Using Humility & Vulnerability to Unlock Your Next Level of Leadership with The Spiral™ Practitioner Training (Part 3 of 3)

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How did The Spiral™ Evolve Itself into a Brand New Format?

I know the main reason we got on here was to talk about how you've shifted you and may have shifted how you're going to deliver this Spiral. So when you think about the incredible practitioners who are out there right now and how The Spiral™ has evolved itself by looping and some incredible facilitators in you, and may why, what has changed about it now? And why did you decide to do that?

Kylie: Ah, I love this question and I love the way you said that I really did feel it's interesting. I was just talking with Dane like Dana and I are really close and, and I've had the privilege of being trained by him and I've had the privilege of coaching him and being able to support him and just, you know, we've become good mates. And it's interesting because we were reflecting on the, the Wealth Spiral event that I went to a couple of years ago in Bali with Dane. And, and he was saying how, like how much everyone had changed. And then since then, and I was like, yes, I had no intention of buying your business back then.

I do remember, I do remember sitting in a boat with the lovely Zapheria who was, who is one of the, you know, original trainers Dane and Zapheria.

And so I was sitting in a boat with Zapheria watching the dolphins go by in Bali. And I was like, just so excited with all these ideas I had for The Spiral. And so it's interesting. And I was like, I don't, we could do this and we could do this. And I have this idea for this kind of thing and blah, blah, blah. And she was like, wow, you've got so many ideas. I was like, yeah, I'm just really excited.

So it's like, it's really interesting to kind of notice how the Spiral has its own energy and is almost like an entity of evolution itself. One of, one of our other friends has kind of called it, like it's almost a bit psychedelic in how it operates. And it's, it's interesting how it's interesting how the kind of psychedelics and the consciousness evolution is really almost coming slowly coming back into, coming back into favor, coming back into the mainstream narrative. There's a lot more kind of openness in some of the new Netflix shows and what have you had to change your mind? So The S piral is almost, it's almost like a force of evolution. And, and so this modality has this kind of evolutionary drive and evolutionary force that drives it. And so just like you said, the Spiral is evolving itself. And I really feel like it's called us in. It's like, oh, we need a little bit of what you've got, but it a little bit about you've got me, it's like

Bianca: .Well I didn't even know I was going on this ride I just kinda turned up!

Kylie: So it's been a bit of a rollercoaster in itself, but so to kind of come loop back to your question like that evolutionary force, the Spiral is, you know, you can say, oh, it changes your life or, oh, it's transformational, but transformation is, of course it is a somewhat disruptive process. You know, you need to, you need to very much disrupt. You need to disrupt the status quo in order to transform it.

There is almost a death and rebirth process or a hero's journey process that happens as you go through the Spiral.

Why Did You Change The Requisite For Sitting The Spiral Practitioner Training?

And so The Spiral used to be trained as a seven day immersive retreat experience where we would all get together and, you know, in a kind of training room in person and kind of go through this seven day experience together.

And there was a prerequisite for people to become a practitioner who had been through the Spiral before with, with a practitioner, you know, months before. And so then that those people would go, oh yes, I want to become a practitioner of this work. And so I'm going to go and do the practitioner training then with COVID and all of the changes that happened there, then Dana Zapheria and I, as a guest teacher brought this training online.

And so then it became this seven day online training, but simply by the nature of the kind of limitations of online training that's in that seven days, you can't quite fit as much content into those seven days. And so some bits ended up getting left out. And then there was the kind of sense of like, lots of people were hearing about it and wanting to do the training, but they hadn't gone through The Spiral before. And so then a three-day Spiral experience was created for people to kind of rush through the Spiral once in order to meet the requirements, to go through the practitioner training, but going through The Spiral twice really quickly, like immediately kind of rushing your way through it in order to just meet a requirement to go through the practitioner training seemed a bit unnecessary to me, and it kind of creates this kind of disruptive disorienting kind of transformative force moving twice through your life. And so we thought that we would just restructure it so that it's still recommended. Like if, you know, if you have been through The Spiral, of course, it's going to be wonderful to come into the practitioner training after that, because you already know it and love the experience.

I think also because you can look back on your own visceral lived experience of it and understand why that happened and look at it through a different lens. So it's super, super helpful. But to know that it's not the prerequisite, meaning it's the barrier because so many people are motivated to become a Spiral practitioner, but let's say it just doesn't work out timing wise for you to do it. So you have to rush through it. It actually takes away through the integrity and the holistic nature of what it really creates your intention is I'm going to rush through this person transformation so I can hurry up and be a practitioner it's kind of corrupt your experience.

It's it just makes it unnecessary. I think it just adds a level of disorienting, you know, disruption that doesn't need to be there. So if you've already gone through the Spiral, that's amazing. You're going to have a great experience. If you're only hearing about the Spiral first through this video, and you're like, wow, I want to go through, I want to learn about this. I want to go through this. I want to become a practitioner. Then it makes sense for you to be able to just come in and have that experience and work through it with us.

What Exactly Has Changed & What Will Be Covered?

And so what we've done is actually break up. We've added an extra three days to the training to make it a 10 day training and total, but then broken up into three event chunks. So we do three days of learning the Emotional Clearing tool. So this is the muscle testing tool, which is almost like the hardware of the training. And then we start to learn some of the clears. The Chakra Clear, the Levels of Consciousness, Clear all of these types of clearing processes that you can start to get familiar with. And just like I said, that energetic hygiene, you can start to practice that and get really good at it. So that then you've got a couple of weeks to practice that and really let that part sink in.

Before we then go into this Spiral journey, which is it's very much an experiential change.

Each level of The Spiral has its has very much its own essence, its own themes, the different things that it's connected to like, you know, level one connected to survival and safety and security and connection to the earth and your rootedness and your grounded-ness and you know, your ability to just be, you know, to just be in your body, to be safe here on earth level, to being connected to, you know, your sexuality on your connection, to your lineage, your ancestors, and your sense of give and take and fair exchange and your tribal connections and all of those types of things.

So each level, you know, level five connected to your voice and your self-expression and your ability to communicate and express yourself and grow your business. Like each of these levels is accesses a different essence, a different energy, a different type of power that we activate within you.

And so we're going through the first four days of training to move from levels one to four to your heart.
Then we have a couple of days to break and just integrate and have a weekend. Let yourself just recalibrate from being on the screen for four days.

And then we come back to level five level six level 7, for throat and anya and crown chakra to then move through this final piece. And so we've just restructured structured the training so that our participants are better able to receive and learn the material and integrate it as they go.

How is sitting for The Spiral different to sitting NLP?

Bianca: Well, we have our transformational leadership pathway, the pyramid of working from being a, you know, a Passionate Enthusiastic with your coaching skills, then you turn into a Striving Apprentice there that next level of a Magical Master. And then the top of the pyramid is when you're a Visionary Leader and you're making a global impact lineage prosperity and liberating people on mass.

Okay. So, so part of this, it's not like the difference that I feel like makes a different from, let's say an NLP practitioner training is that NLP I'm kind of coming to learn. What's underneath the hood. I'm not going to be inspecting my it's not so much. It's like kind of a secondary thing about who I am as a driver of that car. So part of this growth as a magical, so the, for you to step up to that next level of the pyramid, then be that global visionary leader. You have to be like, you have to humble yourself and be like, right. I'm just going to be like going down to the roots and the earth. And like, I have to look at myself ...

I'm thinking of, you know, even on a journey, like a psychedelic journey, you know, any conception of who you are, you actually have to put that to the side and be prepared to break that identity down because, because it's going to show up. You actually have to park that strategic, you know, professional mind identity to the side because you're coming ... yes, you might be wanting to go. I want to apply my business. I want to make more money. I want to be a practitioner, but first you have to show up and be willing to humble yourself in that journey of like, oh wow. You know, oh, well I'm just I'm purging so I can move ahead.

Like, it's not like you can have any front there's no, you can't be wearing the mask. You know, there's no hiding in that, in that process

Kylie: A hundred percent. There's no hiding. And that's, that's what I think is so powerful about, and I love how you frame, how you've kind of articulated that because it's one thing to learn the skills and the strategies and the processes and go, Hey, I'm going to take you through this process. And I'm just going to do this thing.

The Spiral is very much an embodied experience, actual process from the of evolution of personal evolution from which you then have your own self-expression and then you have a set of tools that you can then help liberate offers with that same tool. But it's very much, if you're coming to just kind of tick the boxes and learn the things so that you can go and do it with others, you're in for a ride because ego that wants to keep things at a distance that's going to be challenged. And you know, I think it is important to, to note it is a challenging training. Like you are going to be challenged. There will be emotions that will come up. You gotta be prepared for.

Bianca: Yeah. It's like, you have to prove yourself as the leader who can represent this work. That's what you're actually going through. It's like, that's the Rite of passage, the initiation that you're going through, how authentically are you going to look at your own blind spots so that you can step up because people you'll plant, what is it that you say your clients won't, you won't be to hold your clients unless you bought yourself.

Shifting your Identity as a Leader - and why you can't take your clients deeper than you've gone yourself

Kylie: Yeah. You can't hold your clients deeper or help them transform deeper than you have gone yourself. And you know, that doesn't mean that you need to have gone through the exact same thing, but you know, that depth of self- inspection that depth of humility to really go to the emotions that, you know, they're not comfortable to. It's like, it's not comfortable to look at the places where you feel shame. It's not comfortable to fully like, you know, express and give yourself permission to express your anger through your body. And that, you know, there are ways that you can healthfully express anger.
There are ways that you can healthily love and look at and nurture the parts of you that feel shame. And, and that's the liberating force is the willingness to look into those places that feel dark or unknown or a little bit scary. And through this process, we can do that safely and with the whole team of people who are on the journey with you. So it's like, it's the safest way that you can kind of go through it in a really systematic way, but it, it is challenging and it, it will require growth from you. And, you know, it's interesting that part, you said leave your preconceived ideas at the door and, and that willingness to shed identity is a really key part of what makes a great Spiral Practitioner.

And I like fully remember this moment of, of having to shed my professional trainer identity. So it's so funny to kind of have this rebirth of like, I had this kind of trainer ego that was like, I know how things done. And I'd like, everybody should be trained and this kind of self-righteousness. And it's so funny to kind of look at that part of myself now and go, oh, it's like, like my daughter says, well, that's a bit cringe,

How authenticity affects magnetism and why The Spiral™ helps you radiate that

Cringe mom, but it's those things that like, they feel so it's like all of the ways that we justify and we make ourselves significant, we've gotta be willing to let those go in order to, because it's almost like that part that's trying to justify. Yes. I'm important. Yes. I know the things. Yes. Everybody else needs to know what I know, but what's driving. That is an insecurity. And so in order to like actually embody true power, like the, Hey, this is me, I'm just showing up as me, my authentic self. If you came in my door right now, I would just still be me. You know, I don't have to put on a front. This is just who I am. And that, that level of authenticity is a power that not many people have these days. And so when you come out of the Spiral Practitioner Training, there is a level of authenticity that you start to radiate that people notice, even if they don't know that you've been through it, people are like, “Hey, what's been going on with you? You seem to be shining. What's happening?” People notice it and they're drawn to you. And so it creates this kind of greater level of radiance or magnetism that just kind of emanates through all of your world, which is cool.

Bianca: It's one of the things that I noticed is when you, why, because people have a projection of themselves where they're not really feeling safe to be themselves around you, then the projection, or how to pick up on that is they're like, well, I'm not safe to be me around them. So when you give yourself complete permission to be exactly who you are and not be anything else for anybody else, it gives permission for other people to be that as well. And that resonance is a beautiful sight to behold.

because mom was loving it because I, you know, the daycare moms, when I on daycare stuff, when I rock up and they go, what are you wearing? And I'm like, oh my God, my shirt inside out back to front. And they're like, what's in your pants. Oh, it's only yesterday's undies in. My pants are still there. I'm like, it looked like a big varicose vein, but I'm here, I'm here

Kylie: Four kids here.

Bianca: Take it a little bit,

Kylie: But that level of self-assurance is so rare. So many people feel like they have to put on this mask or I have to, you know, present a certain part of themselves because this part is, oh, it's too shameful to show this. I could never, like, they would never accept me in the tribe if I showed this part of myself. But once you go through this process and have this kind of liberation tool that you can use every single day, like those types of things, they just, those insecurities don't really stand a chance and you can just kind of move through them. And that's not to say, you go through these trading and Sha-bam everything in your whole life is fixed forever and ever I'm in, it's like, it's a journey, a constant journey of evolution. And like, it's a huge evolution for where you are now. And then, you know, in the future, you'll have a huge integration. And then there might be other things that will come up when you're, you know, when your next call to your next growth phase and you'll have the tools.

And it's interesting. I got a bit, I had a, like a wave of emotion come through me last night. And my husband found me crying in the kitchen. And I was like, I was just really tired. I'd been working a bit too much. I think it was like, why are you crying? Are you crying? And I was like, oh, I'm just going through that. You know, I'm just going through that kind of breakdown breakthrough moment. And I like, I, I don't need to hide that I was upset or that I had some sadness that was moving through my body. It's like, I can make that sadness with as much acceptance and grace and willingness to just feel it as I was, you know, as I would meet happiness or playing with my children. It's like, what spiral does is it gives you a clean way of relating to all of your emotions. So you can just let them move through you. You don't need to hide them. You don't need to stuff them down. You can just let them flow. And so I had a little cry and then I was fine. I had a cup of tea and we watched a TV show and I woke up this morning. I'm like, damn, I'm back. So it's like, you become good at transforming and you, and so then things don't fester. They don't get stuck because when something comes up, it just moves through you because your pipes are clean, you know?

If You're Not Feeling Quite Ready - Here's How You Can Do The First 3 Days of Emotional Clearing Only

Bianca: So I think it would be good to point out here is I'm super excited, everything that you've shared, because I really feel like it's going to revolutionize so many things. We feel about the coach industry that, you know, on the whole aggravates, the coaching industry about itself, I think it's really going to help

Kylie: These things used to bother me, but they don't bother me anymore. But it's funny to see other people being bothered by the things that it's like, oh, it's, it's a whole thing that happens.

Bianca: Yeah. I think it's really going to help iron out a lot of those greases, but the great thing about how you and may have restructured the process means that you can just come along to the first three days of the emotional clearing pre-training immersion. So if you are spiritually curious or just, you know, curious that in you might just want to look up underneath the car and figure out how the engine works and try it out, right?

You may not be ready to go in and inspect who you are as a driver and look yourself in all these different ways. You can just come and look under the hood and start to be like, okay, I can take this on. And it's totally an option for you to figure out how your engine is running to work out how you can do your own services, your oil times.

If you want to do that. That's an option as well, which is also helpful for some people who are like the whole practitioner training time, energy timing, cost investment is a bit too much for me right now. You can also do the first three days and then allow that to revolutionize your life and your business for sure. But you can come back the next year and sit and do the practitioner training. So Module 1 and 2. So you can do the first three days and then come and do the full seven days of the practitioner training and what you've already invested - time, energy and money - will still be attributed to the overall journey. Yeah.

Kylie: Ah, yes. That's so important to mention. You might just want to do the first three days and not the whole thing. That's great. And that's like, you learn the skills and the tools to take home for yourself. And what I love about the first three days as well is that we have the incredible Mei who is a qualified kinesiologist. And so she's going to be able to teach in much more depth and specificity and expertise around the meridian channels, around the emotional release points and the stress release points and the five elements chart, which is drawn from kinesiology, which is such a key. Just as much as NLP is an underpinning, kinesiology is an underpinning of this too.

And so Mei really embodies vast expertise in both NLP and kinesiology and where we're just adding to an amplifying, the professional foundations of the training so that everyone knows it's not just magic, it's like there is rigorous training. There's thousands of years of Chinese medicine that underpins this. There's thousands of years of Hindu spirituality and Hindu experience of the chakra system that underpins this. There's hundreds of years of Western psychology that underpins this. So it's really drawn from all of these different lineages. And if you don't understand that you think, “Kapow, it's magic! Oh, I don't know why it works. It just works.”

Exactly. And so you can come in and do that. You can just do this and go through the chart and get the result. But for our practitioners, we want them to understand a little bit more about what is under the hood, how does this connect to that, how does the engine work, so that they have that conviction, that this is built on real stuff. And this is a genuine methodology that we're learning here so that they have that conviction in the power of it to be able to work with clients.

Bianca: Yes. And it's the conviction piece that is what determines your positioning in the marketplace - how sought out you are, how much money you charge, how you satisfied your clients are, how good the results are. It's actually your personal conviction because of the journey and the mastery you have dedicated yourself to.

Kylie: Amen.

So you might be wondering: How do I get into this already? Stop talking already. How do I buy this?

How do you get in on this training? If you've heard enough and you’re just like, “I'm in already! Let me buy it!” then look below or around this page to find the place where you can get the details of the next training, the dates, the times, the timezones, the logistics of that, so that you can make sure that you're able to attend, and then the details of the pricing and the payment plans. You can find a PDF document with all of those details and logistical questions that you can get answered. And then we can book you in for a call to just help answer any other questions and get you set up on your enrollment payment plan.

How can I have a taster 1 session experience of The Spiral with a practitioner doing a "Manifestation Clear"?

And do you know what, if you want to get set up with a practitioner and experience let's say a one session manifestation, I highly recommend that. We'll tee you up with who we think the best practitioner is for you. So when we find out what it is that you're looking for, what your goals are, what your big vision is, and maybe some of the stuff points that you already know, we'll give you an actual experience of what it's like to go through that manifestation. I just thought of it.

Kylie: I love that. That's a great idea. Alright.

Bianca: Find the links. Awesome. Great. We want to see you in the training.

Kylie: If you want this level of awesomeness in your life too, why would you not want to join? Do it now. Sign up.